Chifukwa sitidziwa nthawi zonse kupanga kusiyana koyenera kwa mawu aliwonse omwe amadutsa m'mitu yathu. Timafika ngakhale kuwasokoneza chifukwa sikophweka nthawi zonse kuwagwiritsa ntchito mofanana. Kotero, kuti musaganizirenso za izo, Tikukuuzani kusiyana pakati pa kuona mtima ndi kuona mtima.
Cholinga sikungodziwa tanthauzo lenileni la mawuwo komanso kuti tiziwagwiritsa ntchito. Chifukwa tikatero tingathe kuzindikira nthawi yomweyo anthu amene ali ndi khalidwe linalake. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo tingawagwiritsenso ntchito m’tsiku lathu ndi tsiku. Zonsezi ndi zina zomwe muyenera kudziwa.
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kuwona mtima ndi chiyani
Ngakhale kuti kaŵirikaŵiri umatchulidwa kuti khalidwe, tinganenenso kuti ndi khalidwe labwino kwambiri. Chifukwa ndi chinthu chomwe chingafotokoze umunthu wa aliyense. Popeza munthu amene alidi woona mtima m'moyo wake ndi aliyense amene amatengeka ndi kusonyeza ndi kuteteza ulemu kwa ena ndipo ndithudi, ku choonadi. Chifukwa adzachita zinthu mogwirizana ndi zimene akuganiza, choncho tinganene kuti alibe nkhope yapawiri, ndiponso alibe cholinga chilichonse chosadziwika bwino.a. Choncho, ndi munthu woteroyo mudzakhala otetezeka kwambiri chifukwa sizidzakuvulazani ngakhale pang’ono. Ngakhale kuti kuona mtima kuli chinthu chamtengo wapatali, tiyeneranso kunena kuti si aliyense amene amaulandira motero. Chifukwa nthawi zina, simumakonda kumva zowona kuchokera kwa anthu ena. Popeza akuti akhoza kupweteka nthawi zina.
Kodi kukhulupirika ndi chiyani
N’zoona kuti tikamakamba za kuona mtima, tiyenela kukambilana makhalidwe angapo. Chifukwa kuti ukhale munthu woona mtima uyeneranso kukhala woona mtima komanso woona mtima. Ndiko kuti, magulu amtengo wapatali amaperekedwa. Chifukwa cha kuwona mtima, monga mtengo, tikhoza kukhazikitsa maubwenzi odalirika ndi ulemu ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi nafe. Choncho, munthu akakhala woona mtima, nthawi zambiri zimaonekera m’zochita zake.
Kusiyana pakati pa kuona mtima ndi kuona mtima
Ngakhale ndi zinthu ziwiri zomwe sizili zangwiro komanso zofunika m'miyoyo yathu, amathanso kukhala ndi zosiyana zomwe ziyenera kuganiziridwa. Mwinamwake kuwona mtima kumatengedwa kwambiri ndi mawu ndi kuwona mtima ndi zochita. Ngati wina wakupatsani kusintha kolakwika pogula zinthu, ngakhale zitatikomera, ndizolemekezeka kuyankhapo. Komanso kukhala wanzeru, kusunga zinsinsi zomwe angatiuze kapena kuganiza zolakwa zimatipangitsa kukhala oona mtima. Tikhoza kunena kuti tikamalankhula za munthu woona mtima, timanena kuti ali ndi makhalidwe angapo omwe amawapangitsa kukhala munthu wowonekera komanso wovomerezeka, nthawi zonse amalemekeza omwe ali nawo pafupi. Pamene tikufuna kufotokozera munthu woona mtima, ndiye kuti timatchula kuti ndi munthu womveka bwino yemwe anganene zinthu zolunjika kwambiri, popanda zopotoka zambiri koma nthawi zonse ndi choonadi patsogolo. Ndipotu munthu akakhala woona mtima, palibe chilichonse chokhudzana ndi bodza sichidzafika m’maganizo mwake ndipo amapewa ngakhale anthu amene ali oona mtima.
Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati munthu ali woona mtima kapena woona mtima?
Pamene tikuchita ndi munthu woona mtima, tidzadziwa, chifukwa cha zonse zomwe tafotokozazi, komanso chifukwa chakuti ali ndi ulemu wabwino, amakhala ndi maganizo abwino komanso okhazikika maganizo komanso odalirika. Pomwe kumbali ina tidzadziwa kuti munthu amene ali patsogolo pathu ndi woona mtima chifukwa nthawi zonse adzanena zomwe akuganiza, amadana ndi mabodza ndipo palibe amene angatuluke pakamwa pake. Mosaiwala kuti iyenso ndi wodzichepetsa komanso wokwanira.
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