Zomwe mungachite ngati awiriwo ali patali

Ndewu

Kuzindikira kuti wokondedwa ali kutali ndi chimodzi mwaziwopsezo za omwe ali pachibwenzi. Kusuntha pang'ono ndi pang'ono kumayambitsa kuti zinthu sizifanana ndi kumayambiriro kwaubwenzi, ndikupangitsa mantha kuti ndi kutha kwake.

Popeza izi, munthu amene akukhudzidwa sakudziwa choti achite, kuyesera kupanga zonse zibwerere momwemo monga kale. Zikatero, m'pofunika kupeza choyambitsa kapena chifukwa chomwe mbali ina mwa awiriwo yakhalira kutali ndi inayo.

Mgwirizano mwa awiriwa

Kuti banja likhale lolimba ndikukula, nkofunika kupanga mgwirizano. Payenera kukhala mgwirizano wina pankhani yopereka ndi kulandira. Ngati izi sizingachitike, ndizotheka kuti banjali limafooka pang'onopang'ono ndipo kutalika kwa mbali imodzi kumayamba. Kuti mgwirizanowu ulimbikitsidwe, payenera kukhala kukhutira kuchokera mbali zonse ziwiri pamalingaliro komanso mwamalingaliro. Ngati izi sizingachitike, sizachilendo kuti m'modzi wa mamembala ake amakhala akutali ndipo ubalewo walephera.

Zomwe zimasokoneza banja

Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kukhala kutali ndi mnzake:

  • Munthuyo wavutikanso ndi winawake wofunika ndipo ali mkati momva chisoni. Popeza izi, si zachilendo kuti khalidwe la munthu lisinthe kwambiri ndipo amatha kuwonetsa gulu lina mwa awiriwa. Izi zikachitika, ndikofunikira kumupatsa chikondi chonse chotheka.
  • Zovuta zomwe zimalandiridwa mwina ndi ntchito, banja kapena mnzanu, Itha kuyambitsa mtunda wina muubwenzi. Izi zikachitika, nkofunika kukambirana ndi banjali ndi kukhazikitsa mfundo zomwe zingathetsere vutoli.
  • Kulimbana nthawi zonse kumatha kutha munthu komanso sankhani kukhala patali pachibwenzi. Kukangana ndi ndewu sizabwino kwa anthu awiriwa choncho ndibwino kuti muzikambirana za zinthu ndikupangira mayankho ake.
  • Kuvutika ndi kusakhulupirika Ndicho chimodzi mwazomwe zimayambitsa zomwe munthu amatha kupatukana ndi wokondedwa wawo.

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Momwe mungachitire ngati mnzake ali kutali

Zomwe zimayambitsa kusunthaku zadziwika, ndikofunikira kupeza yankho kuti ulalo usasweke:

  • Ndikofunika kukhala pafupi ndi banjali ndipo mumufunse modekha chifukwa chakusunthika koteroko.
  • Kukhala wachifundo ndi mnzanu kumakuthandizani kudziwa momwe mukumvera komanso athe kukonza vutoli.
  • Simuyenera kunyada ndipo mukhale kutali ndi mnzanuyo. Izi zikachitika, zinthu zidzaipiraipira ndipo zidzakhala zovuta kuyambiranso ulalo.

Mwachidule, ngati mnzanu ali kutali, ndikofunikira kudziwa chifukwa chomwe chalimbikitsa izi komanso yesetsani kubwezeretsa zonse momwe zidalili kale Mgwirizano wapakati pa banjali ndi wofunikira ndipo chisamaliro chiyenera kuchitidwa momwe zingathere kuti banja lawo lisasokonezeke.


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