Anzathu ndi chuma chomwe timasankha. Ndiwo banja lathu komanso othandizira osayerekezeka tsiku ndi tsiku komwe kwenikweni, zilibe kanthu kuti alipo ambiri. Chofunikira ndikuti maubwenzi awa ndiowona, olemekezeka komanso atanthauzo.
China chake chomwe chimachitika kawirikawiri ndipo chomwe chiyenera kutipempha kuti tiwonetse, ndikuti anthu ambiri amakonda kusiya anzawo akayamba chibwenzi. Nthawi yathu nthawi zonse imayang'ana kwambiri munthu amene timamukonda. Komabe, M'kupita kwanthawi, machitidwe amtunduwu omwe timagawira nthawi yathu yonse kwa mnzathu, ndizosavomerezeka komanso zolimbikitsa pamunthu wathu. Ubwenzi ndi gawo lofunikira pakukula kwathu Ndipo, khulupirirani kapena ayi, amatilola kukhala ndi mgwirizano wogwirizana, wokwanira kwambiri. Timalongosola chifukwa chake.
Zotsatira
Anzathu, gwero la thanzi
Anzathu samangokhala mgwirizano wabwino woti tizimwa nawo khofi, ndi omwe tingapite nawo kukasangalala kapena kukambirana nawo zomwe takumana nazo. Ubwenzi ndi njira yapadera yosamalira thanzi lathu, kusunga malo osungirako zinthu komanso kuthana ndi nkhawa kapena nkhawa.
Kuphatikizika kwa ena ofunikira
Bwenzi lenileni ndi munthu amene amatilandira monga momwe tilili, amene satiweruza, amene amatithandiza komanso amene ali ndi khalidwe labwino monga khalidwe labwino.
- Pa moyo wanu wonse mwakumana ndi anthu ambiri, koma osadziwa chifukwa chake, mwalumikiza ndi ochepa chabe. Mumazindikira nawo, sikuti mumangokhala ndi zosangalatsa zomwe mumafanana komanso mumagawana zomwezo. Ndipo ichi ndichinthu chofunikira.
- Anzathu ali mbali ya banja lathu, chifukwa nthawi zina, sikofunikira kukhala ndi cholumikizira chomwecho kuti ulalowu ukhale wofunikira kapena woposa.
- Kukhulupirika ndichinsinsi cha maubwenzi abwino komanso atanthauzo, ndipo izi ndi zomwe mumapeza mwa anzanu, zomwe sizikukwanira ndi zala za dzanja limodzi, koma mosakaika, ndizo zabwino kwambiri.
Amatithandiza kuthana ndi nkhawa kapena nkhawa
Vuto silimakhala vuto tikamagawana ndi anzathu. Ndi nthawi yomwe timayika pambali mantha, malire ndi malingaliro okokomeza kuti ayambe kutsitsimutsanso zinthu zambiri chifukwa chothandizidwa nanu.
- Bwenzi labwino limadziwa kumvera osatiweruza Komanso, ngakhale titawauza kuti "zonse zili bwino", athe kuwerenga pamaso pathu kuti sizowona. Amatidziwa, ndipo chisoni chawo chimafika pofika pokhala ndi chowunikira chowona chenicheni kuti tidziwe pomwe tili oyipa, pomwe tikufuna thandizo.
- Chofunika kwambiri chomwe anzathu ambiri ali nacho ndi kuwona mtima. Pomwe anthu ena atha kudzichepetsera ndi ndemanga zawo "mudzawona momwe zinthu zikuyendereni bwino", "ndinu apadera", "mukutsimikizika kukhala ndi mwayi", abwenzi enieni nthawi zonse amakhala omveka komanso omveka nafe chifukwa ndi zomwezo tikufuna.
«Ndikudziwa kuti izi ndizofunikira kwambiri kwa inu, koma kumbukirani kuti mwaika kale mphamvu zanu zonse ndipo tsopano ndinu oyipa kwambiri. Mwina ndi nthawi yoyesa zatsopano. Chilichonse chomwe mungachite ndikuthandizani, koma zomwe muli nazo m'malingaliro tsopano zikukuvutitsani kuposa china chilichonse.
Mitundu iyi ya ndemanga ndi zomwe timafunikira. Kuwona mtima komwe kumamveka pakamwa pa munthu wina ndi komwe kumatipatsa bata lamkati kuti timveketse bwino zinthu ndikuwunika. Kupsinjika kumachepa ndipo timachita zinthu modekha.
Mnzathu ndi anzathu, maubwenzi awiri ofunikira
Wokondedwa wathu alibe udindo wogwirizana.Ndi anzathu, simuyenera kupita nawo kukadya nawo, komanso simuyenera kusangalala nawo ngati simukufuna. Zomwezo zimapita kwa abwenzi anzathu. Tonse tili ndi ufulu wokhala ndi chiyanjano ndi anzathu omwe, nthawi zambiri, timasunga kuyambira tili ana.
Anzathu ndi gawo la banja lathu, chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti tikwaniritse malo awiriwa, omwe amamangidwa ndi awiriwa komanso omwe ali m'malo mwathu ndi anzathu amzimuyo komanso amtima.
- Sitingathe kuiwala kuti munthu wachimwemwe, yemwe amacheza nawo, nthawi yopumula, kupambana kwake pantchito yake, ndi munthu amene amakwaniritsidwa panokha komanso mwamalingaliro. kuti amatha kupereka zabwino kwambiri kwa mnzake. Ngati izi zaphwanyidwa, kudzidalira kwathu kumaphwanyidwa ndipo zonsezi zimabwereranso ku ubalewo.
- Ngati tili ndi mnzathu yemwe amatiletsa kukumana ndi anzathu, Ngati satikhulupirira kapena kutidzudzula chifukwa timachita izi ndi izi nawo, pang'ono ndi pang'ono vutolo, kusakhutira komanso mavuto amakumana nawo. Timasiya kukhala ndi anzathu okondana nawo mbali, chifukwa bwalo lamwini ili lingakhale loyenerana ndi la banjali. Kuigulitsa kungakhale kowopsa m'maganizo.
- Sitingakhale maola 24 tsiku limodzi ndi awiriwa, kapena Palibe amene ayenera kutiletsa ife maderawa kukhala apamtima ngati abwenzi., zovuta komanso kupumula ndi anzathu. Ndi gawo lathu komanso kudziwika kwathu.
Chifukwa chake, malo onsewa akuyenera kukhala ogwirizana, kulemekezana wina ndi mnzake, ndipo tikulemeretsa miyoyo yathu ndi mitima yathu ndi chikondi cha wokondedwa wathu komanso chikondi chosatha cha abwenzi. Musazengereze kusamalira abwenzi anu ndikukhala ndi malowa ofunikiranso kuti mukule ndikukula kwamalingaliro.
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