Kodi maubwenzi omasuka amabweretsa chiyani kwa banjali?

Sosaite nthawi zonse imalimbikitsa kuti ubale wa banja uyenera kukhala wa mkazi mmodzi. Chikondi chiyenera kulunjika kwa munthu mmodzi yekha. Komabe, zinthu zikusintha ndipo maanja ambiri masiku ano amayamikira mwayi wokhala ndi ubale womasuka ndi wokondedwa wawo.

M’nkhani yotsatirayi tikusonyezani zomwe kusankha kwa ubale womasuka kungabweretse kwa okwatirana.

Zomwe tinganene kuti ndi ubale wotseguka

Posachedwapa, maanja ambiri asankha kukhala ndi maubwenzi omasuka. Ngakhale zitha kukhala zachilendo komanso zachilendo, M’mabanja ambiri, maubwenzi omasuka angalimbitse mgwirizano umene umakhalapo popereka chitetezo ndi kukhulupirirana. Ubale womasuka ndi womwe okwatiranawo amachoka paukwati umodzi ndikusankha kukhalabe ndi anthu ena kunja kwa banjali. Zindikirani kuti kukhudzana kumeneku sikuyenera kukhala kugonana.

Ubwenzi wotseguka ukhoza kukhala wogwirizana kuyambira pachiyambi kapena pakapita kanthawi ndi cholinga chopulumutsa banja. Kuti maubwenzi omasuka akhale opambana ndi kukhazikitsidwa, ndikofunikira kuti awiriwo agwirizane pazonse. Pankhani yomvetsetsa ubale wamtunduwu, ndikofunikira kukhala ndi malingaliro omasuka ndikuyika pambali tsankho lamtundu uliwonse. Malingana ngati ena mwa maphwando sakudziwa bwino za izo ndipo akukayikira, ubale wotseguka ukhoza kutanthauza kutha kwa banja lokha. Mwa njira iyi, anthu onse ayenera 100% kukhulupirira anati lotseguka maubwenzi Ndipo musazengereze za izo.

Kodi maubwenzi omasuka amabweretsa chiyani kwa banjali?

Kuti ubale wotseguka ugwire bwino ntchito, Onse awiri ayenera kukhazikitsa malamulo angapo omwe amathandiza kulimbikitsa maubwenzi omwe alipo mwa okwatirana. Maubwenzi amtunduwu amakonda kulimbikitsa zikhalidwe zofunika m'banja monga momwe zimakhalira pakukhulupirirana ndi kudzipereka.

Chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino za ubale wotseguka ndi chifukwa chakuti nsanje imatha. Nthawi zambiri amapezeka m'mabanja okwatirana koma alibe chifukwa chokhalira m'mabanja omasuka. Pali chosankha chimene chiyenera kulemekezedwa koma chimene chimathandiza kulimbitsa mgwirizano umene wapangidwa m’banjamo.

Maubwenzi otseguka amapanga nthawi ya banja kukhala yofunika kwambiri komanso mgwirizano pakati pa anthu onse awiri ndi wamphamvu kwambiri m'mbali zonse. Kwa anthu ambiri masiku ano, maubwenzi amtunduwu ndi ofunika kwambiri kuti banjali lizitha nthawi ndikukhala amphamvu pamene masiku akupita. Anthu kunja kwa banjali amathandizira mgwirizano wamalingaliro kuti ukhale wolimba ndikukhazikika popanda vuto lililonse.

Mwachidule, maanja ochulukirachulukira akusankha kukhala ndi mitala zomwe zingawononge mkazi mmodzi. Kusunga ubale womasuka kungathandize okwatirana kukhala olimba. Nthawi zambiri, maubwenzi otseguka amatha kukhala njira zomwe okwatirana amafunikira kuti apulumutse ubale wawo.