Pehea e ʻike ai i kahi makua ʻona

pale-walaʻau-i kāu poʻe keiki

Kākaʻikahi ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi makua nāna e hoʻomaopopo he mea ʻawaʻawa ia i kā lākou keiki a ʻaʻole lawa ka hānai ʻana. Ma muli o ka nui o ka makua ma muli o nā waiwai i hāʻawi ʻia i kāu keiki i ka wā o ke aʻo a ke keiki. Pono ka makuakāne e kōkua i ke keiki e hoʻomōhala i kahi ʻano pololei a me ke ʻano kūpono.

Inā ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole maikaʻi paha ka makua a manaʻo ʻia he makua ʻona. I ka ʻatikala aʻe ʻike kikoʻī mākou nā ʻano i ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he mau mākua ʻawahia a pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i hiki ke kaʻina makua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.

Kahaunaele

Overprotection o kekahi o ka clearest a me ka maopopo leʻa hiʻona o ka makuaʻawahia. Pono ke keiki i ke kuhi hewa āna e hana ai no ka mea e kōkua kēia iā ia e hana mālie i kona ʻano. ʻO ka nui o ka pale ma ka ʻaoʻao o nā mākua ʻaʻole maikaʻi no ka ulu maikaʻi o ke keiki.

Kūhewa nui loa

He makehewa ka hōʻino a hōʻino i nā keiki i nā manawa āpau. Me kēia, e hoʻoliʻiliʻi mālie ʻia ka hilinaʻi ponoʻī o nā keiki. Kūpono, hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou i kā lākou hana a me nā pahuhopu. Haʻalele nā ​​loiloi mai nā mākua i nā keiki i ka pale pale i nā manawa āpau a manaʻo ʻole he mea ʻole i nā mea āpau a lākou e hana ai.

Pakiko

Manaʻo pinepine nā mākua ʻona me kā lākou keiki. ʻAʻole lākou e hāʻawi i ka mea nui i nā pono ʻokoʻa a nā keiki a noʻonoʻo wale iā lākou iho. Hoʻololi ka manaʻo pilikino i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole o ke kūlana a ke keiki a hiki ke hoʻoulu i nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka hopohopo a me ke kaumaha.

Luna hoʻomalu

ʻO ka mana ʻoi aku kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona maopopo loa o nā mākua ʻona. ʻAʻole maʻalahi lākou i kekahi ʻano o kā lākou keiki a hoʻokau i ko lākou mana i nā manawa āpau, kahi e kumu ai ka hewa o nā keiki. Ma hope o ka hala ʻana o kēia manawa ua lilo kēia mau keiki i mau mākua me nā pilikia ʻano nui hopena maikaʻi ʻole i kou ola i kēlā me kēia lā.

Kau lākou i ke kaomi i nā haʻawina

ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke koi aku i kahi keiki e aʻo i kahi mea āna e makemake ʻole ai. Koikoʻi nā mākua he nui i kā lākou poʻe keiki e koho i kekahi ʻoihana me ka nānā ʻole i ka mea a lākou e makemake maoli ai.

Maikaʻi ʻole a ʻoluʻolu ʻole me ka honua

ʻAʻole hauʻoli nā mākua ʻona i nā manawa āpau a hauʻoli ʻole i ke ola a lākou e alakaʻi ai. Loaʻa kēia neg negatives a me ka pessimism i nā keiki me nā mea maikaʻi ʻole āpau e pili ana i kēia. Ma hope o ka manawa, lilo lākou i mau keiki kaumaha a ʻoluʻolu ʻole me ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole i kekahi mea.

ʻO ka mea hope loa, hoʻopili ʻia nā mākua makua e nā keiki, mea e kō ai ke hiki ʻoe i ka pae mākua. Pono nā mākua e hānai i kā lākou keiki i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka moʻohelu waiwai e like me ka mahalo a me ke aloha e hōʻoia ai he poʻe maikaʻi lākou i ka wā lōʻihi. He mea nui e hiki i nā keiki ke hoʻomohala piha a ʻaʻole e kaupalena iā lākou i kahi ʻano hōʻino.


Hoʻopili ka ʻike o ka ʻatikala i kā mākou kumumanaʻo o ka hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono. E hōʻike i kahi kaomi hemahema ʻaneʻi.

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  2. Ke kumu o ka ʻikepili: kaohi SPAM, hoʻokele ʻōlelo.
  3. Legitimation: Kou ʻae
  4. Ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka ʻikepili: ʻaʻole e hōʻike ʻia ka ʻikepili i nā ʻaoʻao ʻekolu koe ka mana o ke kānāwai.
  5. Pūnaewele mālama: Pūnaewele i mālama ʻia e Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Nā Kuleana: I kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke palena, hoʻōla a kāpae i kāu ʻike.