He aha ka Othello Syndrome?

hoailona-o-pathological-lili

ʻO Othello Syndrome e pili ana i kahi ʻano i kahi pāʻani e ka mea kākau Pelekane ʻo Shakespeare. Hoʻohālikelike ʻia kēia ʻano e ka lili maʻi pathological, ke kumu iā ia e noʻonoʻo ai i nā manawa āpau e pili ana i ka pili ʻole o kāna wahine. E like me ka mea i manaʻo ʻia, ʻo ke kanaka e ʻehaʻeha i kēia maʻi ke kumu e hoʻopau ʻia ko lākou pilina a me ka noho pū ʻana o nā kānaka ʻelua i mea e hiki ʻole ke hoʻomau ʻia.

He pilikia maoli kēia no kēlā me kēia kāne i ka lilo ʻana o ka pilina i mea ʻawahia. Ma ka ʻatikala aʻe e kamaʻilio hou mākou e pili ana i kēia ʻano maʻi a pehea e pili ai i ka wahine ma ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole.

He aha ka Othello maʻi ma muli o

Ua maopopo he pilikia ka mea e ʻeha nei i ka maʻi Othello ma ka pae noʻonoʻo. Eia hou, aia kekahi mau kumu a kumu e ʻaʻa ai ʻoe i kēlā ʻano lili: haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa, kaukaʻi nui i ka hoa a me ka makaʻu nui loa e haʻalele ʻia e ka mea aloha a haʻalele wale.

Hiki i ke kanaka me kēia ʻano lili ke ʻeha i nā moʻo o nā ʻano like ʻole e like me ka hihia o obsessive compulsive maʻi a i ʻole kekahi ʻano paranoid-ʻano maʻi. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, manaʻo ʻia nō hoʻi he hiki ke lili i kēlā lili e ka ʻai nui ʻana i nā mea e like me nā mea ʻino a hoʻopōʻino hoʻi i ke kino e like me ka wai ʻona a lāʻau paha.

Nā ʻōuli o ka maʻi Othello

E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai ma luna, ʻo ka mea i ʻeha i kēia maʻi he lili pathological a maikaʻi ʻole i kāna hoa. ʻEkolu mau ʻano ʻokoʻa o kēia ʻano lili:

  • ʻAʻohe kumu maoli no ke aha e hana ʻia ai kēlā lili.
  • ʻO ka kānalua nui loa a ka hoa.
  • Kūpono ʻole ka hopena a me ka manaʻo ʻole.

ka lili

No nā ʻōuli o ke kanaka lili, e hōʻike ʻia i kēia mau mea:

  • Hoʻonui i ka kaohi o kāu hoa. Manaʻo ʻo ia he hoʻopono ʻole ʻo ia i nā manawa āpau a ʻo kēia ke kumu o ka makaʻala mau.
  • ʻAʻole ʻoe mahalo i ka pilikino a me ka hakahaka o kāu hoa. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i nā manawa āpau i ka hana a kāu hoa. He hopena maikaʻi ʻole kēia i kā lākou pili kaiaulu.
  • ʻO ka hōʻino a me ka ʻuā ʻana i ke ao o ka lā. Ke alakaʻi nei kēia mau mea āpau i ka hana ʻino i hiki i ke kino a i ʻole ka noʻonoʻo.
  • ʻAʻohe wahi no nā manaʻo maikaʻi a i ʻole nā ​​manaʻo. He mea maʻamau no ka mea lili e huhū a huhū i loko o ka lā holoʻokoʻa. ʻAʻole hauʻoli ʻo ia me kāna hoa, ʻoi aku ka pilina pili.

I ka pōkole, he mea nui e mālama i kēia ʻano maʻi i ka wā hiki loa. Pono ke kanaka lili i ke kōkua o kahi ʻoihana, e kōkua iā ia e ʻike ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pili me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe i kahi ala ʻawahia. Inā ʻaʻole e ʻae ke kanaka iā ia iho e mālama ʻia a i ʻole hiki ʻole ke lanakila i ka pilikia o ka lili, pau ka pilina i ka holo pono ʻole. Pono e hoʻokumu i kahi pilina ma ka mahalo piha a me ka hilinaʻi mai nā poʻe ʻelua. ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻae i ka lili Pathological i ka pilina, no ka mea, e pau ia i ka luku ʻia.


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  2. Ke kumu o ka ʻikepili: kaohi SPAM, hoʻokele ʻōlelo.
  3. Legitimation: Kou ʻae
  4. Ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka ʻikepili: ʻaʻole e hōʻike ʻia ka ʻikepili i nā ʻaoʻao ʻekolu koe ka mana o ke kānāwai.
  5. Pūnaewele mālama: Pūnaewele i mālama ʻia e Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Nā Kuleana: I kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke palena, hoʻōla a kāpae i kāu ʻike.