3 mea e aʻo ai i nā keiki ma mua o ka wā ʻōpio

E aʻo ma mua o ka wā ʻōpio

ʻO ka wā ʻōpio kekahi o nā pae paʻakikī o nā keiki ma mua o ka hiki ʻana i ke ola makua. Hiki koke, pau nā keiki i ka lilo ʻana i kamaliʻi no ka lilo ʻana i kanaka makua me ke kino o na keiki, no ka mea, aole e pau ka ike ana aku i kau mau keiki he kamalii liilii, no ka nui o lakou. ʻO kēia ka manaʻo i kekahi lā, hikiwawe, hoʻōki lākou i ka liʻiliʻi a lilo i poʻe makua me kā lākou kuleana ponoʻī.

A i ka hiki ʻana mai o kēia mau kuleana, hiki i nā keiki ke hoʻoholo a lilo i poʻe mākua hana, pono lākou e loaʻa i kekahi mau haʻawina i ko lākou ola ʻana. Mai ka hānau ʻana, he aʻo mau ke ola o nā keiki. I ko lākou wā kamaliʻi, aʻo lākou i nā mea maʻamau e like me ka ʻike ʻana i nā ʻano, nā kala, nā kani, ka hele a ʻai ʻana iā lākou iho. Akā, ke hiki ʻoe i ka wā ʻōpio, pono lākou e ʻike i nā mea e hiki ai iā lākou ke hana i ka honua me ka hana piha.

He aha e aʻo ai i nā keiki ma mua o ka wā ʻōpio

Ke hala mākou mai ka wā kamaliʻi, hoʻōki pinepine mākou i ke aʻo ʻana i nā keiki i nā mea, nā mea i lawe ʻia e aʻo ai Kahi ala a kahi Ala hou aʻe paha. Akā, he mau kumuhana kumu kēia e aʻo ʻia e nā makua kāne, nā makuahine, nā kahu hānai a me nā poʻe mākua.

No ka mea, ʻo kēia wale nō ke ala e hōʻoia ai e hiki i kāu mau keiki ke oʻo me ka ʻike kūpono e kū ai i kekahi kūlana. pono kēia mau mea kekahi mau mea e aʻo aku ai i kāu mau keiki mamua o ka hiki ana i ka ʻōpio.

Hoʻopaʻa moekolohe

Hoʻopaʻa moekolohe

I kēia mau lā, loaʻa i nā keiki ka ʻike mai nā wahi like ʻole, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e loaʻa iā lākou ka ʻike ma ke ala kūpono. Ma o ka Pūnaewele, ka ʻupena kaiapili, ke kīwī a i ʻole ma o nā hoaaloha kahiko, hiki i nā keiki ke aʻo ma ke ala hewa ʻole i ke ʻano o ka pilina a me ke ola moekolohe. I kekahi manawa e hiki mai ana ma ke ʻano he makuahine a makua kāne ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua.

ʻO ka mea i loko o kou mau lima ke aʻo i kāu keiki i nā manaʻo kumu o ka hoʻonaʻauao wahine. No ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli i kou kino ma ke ʻano kūpono. e ao aku iaia he aha nā pilikia o ka hoʻohana ʻole ʻana i ka pale, e mālama i kā lākou mau hoa me ke aloha a mahalo i nā hoʻoholo a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Pono lākou e aʻo e mālama i ko lākou olakino e hauʻoli i ka pilina me ke kuleana.

E aʻo i ka kuke ma mua o ka wā ʻōpio

I ka wā ma mua, ua aʻo ʻia nā kaikamahine e lilo i wahine hale, ua aʻo lākou ma ke kula e kuke, humuhumu a mālama i ka maʻemaʻe o ka hale. ʻO kekahi mea i kēia lā ua pōmaikaʻi i hāʻule i ka hoʻohana ʻole ʻia, akā he mea nui ia no ke ola o nā keikikāne. Me ka hoʻokae ʻole ʻia ma muli o ke kāne, no ka mea, e mālama pono nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine iā lākou iho like like.

ʻO ke aʻo ʻana iā lākou i nā mea maʻamau e pili ana i ka hale a i ʻole pehea e kuke ai, he mau haʻawina e kōkua iā lākou e hana i ko lākou ola makua a ma mua o nā mea a pau, e mālama iā lākou iho. A ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo iā lākou e kuke i nā kīʻaha maʻalahi, hiki iā lākou ke aʻo e koho i nā meaʻai maikaʻi loa, i koho i nā huahana kūpono i ka hale kūʻai a e hooponopono i ko lakou hookele waiwai.

mālama i kāu kālā

mālama i ke kālā

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ke aʻo ʻana i ka mālama kālā, a ʻike nā keiki he nui i ke ala ʻino loa. No laila, e aʻo iā lākou i ka waiwai o ke kālā He haʻawina kumu ia ma mua o ka hiki ʻana i ka wā ʻōpio. Me nā hana liʻiliʻi i hāʻawi ʻia i nā keikikāne, ma muli o ko lākou mau makahiki a me ko lākou hiki, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaka e loaʻa nā haʻawina kālā liʻiliʻi e pono ai lākou e aʻo e hoʻokele.

E hōʻike iā lākou i ke kumukūʻai e mālama ai a loaʻa iā lākou ke kālā e kūʻai ai i kā lākou makemake nui. Akā, pono lākou e aʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā mea āpau a ke hiki mai ka manawa, pono lākou e koho ma waena o kekahi mea a i ʻole kekahi, no ka mea, ʻaʻole palena ʻole ke kālā akā ʻo ka makemake. Pela, e aʻo lākou e hoʻokele i ka huhū ma mua o ka hiki ʻana i ke oʻo, no ka mea, ʻo ke kālā he kumu nui ia o ka hoʻonāukiuki i kēlā me kēia makahiki.

He mau mea liʻiliʻi kēia e hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu keiki ma mua o kona hiki ʻana i ka wā ʻōpio, akā he nui aku. ʻO nā nīnau e kōkua iā lākou e noho ma ke ala kūpono, akā no ka hoʻokele ʻana i nā kūlana paʻakikī ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i ke ʻano o ka lawelawe ʻana. E hoʻomākaukau i kāu mau keiki e lilo i poʻe mākua hana a e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo me ka ʻike ua mākaukau lākou e hele i ke ao nei.


Hoʻopili ka ʻike o ka ʻatikala i kā mākou kumumanaʻo o ka hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono. E hōʻike i kahi kaomi hemahema ʻaneʻi.

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  1. He kuleana no ka ʻikepili: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Ke kumu o ka ʻikepili: kaohi SPAM, hoʻokele ʻōlelo.
  3. Legitimation: Kou ʻae
  4. Ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka ʻikepili: ʻaʻole e hōʻike ʻia ka ʻikepili i nā ʻaoʻao ʻekolu koe ka mana o ke kānāwai.
  5. Pūnaewele mālama: Pūnaewele i mālama ʻia e Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Nā Kuleana: I kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke palena, hoʻōla a kāpae i kāu ʻike.