Yadda ake kulla zumunci cikin aminci

yana magana game da tsohon abokin tarayya

Aare dangantaka ba abinci ne mai ɗanɗano ga kowa ba da kuma yanke shawara mai wuya. A wannan lokacin ya fi kyau ayi shi cikin lafiyayyar hanya kuma ayi shi ta hanya mafi kyau.

Kar a rasa iko kuma ku ƙare da shi a matsayin manya da mutunta juna ta hanyar juna.

Yadda ake kulla zumunci cikin aminci

Yana da mahimmanci a bi jerin nasihu ko jagorori lokacin rabuwar abokin tarayya:

  • Dole ne ku yanke hukunci yayin sa hannu. Bai kamata shakku su tabbata ba kuma suna da tabbacin muhimmin matakin da ke tattare da kawo ƙarshen wannan alaƙar. Idan akwai shakku, mai yiwuwa ne ba a aiwatar da ƙarshen alaƙar ta hanya mai kyau ba.
  • A matsayin ku na manya ya kamata ku zauna fuska da fuska ku shiga cikin nutsuwa. Tattaunawa mai kyau shine mabuɗin don ƙare alaƙar cikin lumana kuma barin kowane irin ƙiyayya a gefe.
  • Dole ne ku zaɓi wuri mara nutsuwa kuma daga gida. Shafin da aka zaba zai taimaka wajen magana cikin nutsuwa ba tare da hatsarin wani nau'in fada ko rikici tsakanin su ba.
  • Kodayake ba abu ne mai kyau ba don kawo ƙarshen dangantaka, amma za a yaba da ita a kowane lokaci don kasancewa a taƙaice ba tare da ɗaukar kowace irin hanya ba don ƙare ma'auratan. Dole ne ku zama bayyananne kuma a taƙaice a kowane lokaci.
  • Bai cancanci fara jayayya game da matsaloli daban-daban da aka haifar tsakanin ma'aurata ba. Ba lallai ba ne don shiga wannan tattaunawar kuma ku guji shiga tare da ma'auratan kan batutuwan da ba su dace ba. Yaƙe-yaƙe kawai zai tsawaita wahala kuma ya rikitar da ƙarshen dangantakar fiye da haka.
  • Tattaunawa da kyakkyawar sadarwa yana da mahimmanci idan ya zo ga ƙare alaƙar ta hanyar abokantaka ba tare da munanan halaye ba. Dole ne bangarorin biyu su bayyana ra'ayinsu kuma a fili su fadi abin da suke tunani, tare da girmamawa sosai. Dole ne ku yi magana kuma ku san yadda za ku saurara.
  • Bai kamata ku tsawaita lokacin ba tunda wannan zai haifar da wahala da zafi kawai a ɓangarorin biyu. Yana da kyau a ƙare ma'auratan a takamaiman ranar da ɓangarorin biyu suka amince.

ma'aurata suna jayayya akan iyaye

Abin da yakamata kayi bayan rabuwa da abokin zama

Da zarar an yanke shawara mai wahala irin wannan don kawo karshen dangantakar, Dukansu dole ne su yarda da rabuwa kuma suyi kokarin ci gaba da rayuwarsu. Yana da kyau cewa a cikin kwanakin farko wasu shakku sun bayyana kuma akwai wani jin baƙon a cikin dangantakar. Zai iya faruwa cewa duka mutane suna tunanin cewa mummunan yanke shawara ne ya rabu da ma'auratan. A wannan halin, yana da kyau a jira wasu toan kwanaki don sake tunani kan yiwuwar sulhu. A kowane hali, yana da kyau a dogara da dangi da abokai don iya jimre wa irin wannan yanayi mai rikitarwa kuma kada a faɗa cikin wata matsala a matakin motsin rai. Rayuwa ta ci gaba kuma yana da mahimmanci a yi tunanin cewa dangantakar ta ƙare cikin kyakkyawar ma'amala da abokantaka.


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