Yadda ake banbance tsakanin abota da soyayya

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Mutane da yawa ba su sani ba, amma abota wani nau'in soyayya ne da ke faruwa tsakanin mutane biyu kuma wanda zai iya rikicewa da soyayyar soyayya. Wani lokaci yana da wuya a banbanta abota da soyayya ta gaskiya, hakan zai haifar da da rudani.

Don haka yana da mahimmanci a bayyane koyaushe idan abin da kake ji game da wani mutum shin soyayyar gaskiya ce ko kuma kawai abota.

Yadda ake banbance tsakanin abota da soyayya

Lokacin kafa wani dangantaka da mutum, Yana da mahimmanci sanin idan soyayyar da ake wanzu abota ce ko soyayya ce. Anan zamu baku jerin matakai waɗanda zasu taimaka muku rarrabe ra'ayoyin biyu:

  • A cikin alaƙar soyayya, duka mutane suna bayyana ƙaunar da suke ji a zahiri kamar yadda lamarin yake tare da runguma, shafawa ko sumbata. Idan abin da ya kasance tsakanin mutane biyu abota ne, da wuya irin waɗannan maganganun na soyayya suke faruwa kodayake akwai abubuwan banda.
  • Abota kusan abu ne mai yawan gaske a cikin soyayyar soyayya kuma wannan ba kasafai yake faruwa a cikin abokantaka ba. Wannan alaƙar galibi tana da alaƙa da batun jima'i, kodayake wannan ba koyaushe lamarin yake ba, kamar yadda ake yi wa mutanen da ba su da sha'awar yin jima'i.
  • Commitaddamarwa wani ɗayan abubuwan da ke cikin alaƙa. Dukansu mutane suna buƙatar wani alƙawari yayin kafa alaƙa, wanda ke haifar da jin kunya idan hakan bai faru ba. Lokacin da kuke cikin ɓangare na dangantaka, daidai ne cewa ana buƙatar mutane biyu su yi wasu sadaukarwa don ma'aurata kuma don haka su kasance da dangantaka mai ma'ana a tsakaninsu. Ba da wuya alƙawarin yake cikin dangantakar abokantaka.

farin ciki a cikin soyayya

  • Tausayi da baƙin ciki ba za su iya kasancewa a cikin dangantakar soyayya ba. Kasancewa tare da mutum saboda jin zafi kuma don kada su ji su kaɗai, ba zai iya zama soyayya a kowane lokaci ba. Isauna ta fi haka yawa kuma ba za a iya kafa ta a kowane lokaci kan tausayi da jin kai ba.
  • Jin motsin zuciyar wani bangare ne wanda zai bamu damar banbanta soyayya da abota. Dangane da dangantakar soyayya, motsin zuciyar da ya rayu kuma yaji yafi karfi. Tunanin cewa ma'auratan na iya rabuwa na iya haifar da jin daɗin nau'ikan mutane kamar baƙin ciki ko baƙin ciki. Dangane da abota, motsin rai ba shi da ƙarfi sosai kuma ƙarshenta ba yakan haifar da wasan kwaikwayo na mutum ba. Ofarshen dangantakar soyayya ba tasa ce mai dandano mai kyau ga kowa ba kuma mutane ƙalilan ne suke son hakan ta faru.

Don haka yana da mahimmanci a san yadda za'a bambance tsakanin menene alaƙar soyayya ta gaskiya da kuma abota mai sauƙi. Kowane ɗayan yana da halaye irin nasa waɗanda suka sa ya fito fili. Abun takaici, a yau har yanzu akwai mutanen da suka kawo karshen rikice-rikice da kalmomin biyu kuma suka shiga cikin alaƙar soyayya da wani mutum, lokacin da ainihin abin shine dangantakar abokantaka.


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