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Rikicin ma'aurata

Kullum muna jin cewa kowane ma'aurata ya banbanta kuma a cikin su kawai mutane biyu da suka shiga sun san duk bayanan daki ɗari bisa ɗari, amma tabbas kusan kowa ya ga ɗayan waɗannan a wani lokaci. ma'aurata masu guba Ba ku kyautatawa kanku da halayenku ba. Akwai ma'aurata da ke da alaƙar da ba ta da lafiya ga dukansu, kuma hakan yakan ƙare da kyau. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa dole ne ku koya don gane su.

Gane abokan haɗari Zai iya taimaka mana guji shiga cikin irin wannan nau'in. Yana da mahimmanci a ga alamu kafin dangantakar ta zama ba za a iya daidaitawa ba kuma kawai yana haifar da wahala. Kyakkyawan alaƙa wani abu ne mai lafiya, inda duka suke tallafawa juna kuma suka sami ƙauna da girmamawa, wani abu ne da bai kamata mu manta da shi ba.

Ma'aurata masu nutsuwa

Rikicin ma'aurata

Mun fara da ɗayan ma'aurata masu guba waɗanda zasu iya samun illoli da yawa a cikin zamantakewar mu. Gabaɗaya, al'ada ne cewa a cikin watannin farko muna shagaltar da abokin tarayyarmu, tunda ƙaunarta wani nau'i ne na sha'awa da sha'awa ga wannan mutumin, amma tsawon lokaci muna kan dawo da sararinmu, al'adunmu da mutanen da suke da koyaushe yana wurin, ba da lokaci ga abokai da dangi kuma. A cikin ma'aurata masu nutsuwa wannan ba ya faruwa, tunda suna buƙatar kowane lokaci don su, wani abu da ke nisanta mu da namu.

Ma'aurata suna yanke shawara

Akwai wasu ma'aurata masu guba a cikinsu ɗayansu koyaushe yakan ɗauki mataki. Wasu suna yanke shawara ne da kansu, saboda suna son zama shugaban komai kuma koyaushe suna daidai. A wasu lokuta kuma, ana tilasta wa wani daga cikin ma'auratan yanke shawara kafin su rataya da dayan, wani abu da zai iya haifar da rikici saboda bukatar ba koyaushe ya kasance wanda ke da iko a cikin ma'auratan ba. Kasance hakane, ma'aurata masu lafiya shine wanda ke aiki tare kuma yake yanke hukunci tare da ra'ayin duka biyun.

Ma'aurata masu rikici

Kullum muna san ma'aurata waɗanda basu taɓa rabuwa ba amma waɗanda suke yini ɗaya suna ta gardama iri ɗaya a maimaitawa, ko samun rikice-rikice kan abubuwan da ba su da mahimmanci. Akwai ma'aurata masu rikice-rikice waɗanda koyaushe za su nemi matsaloli a cikin komai, waɗanda kawai suka san yadda za a daidaita lamura ta wannan hanyar kuma waɗanda kuma sukan nemi hujjar cewa ma'aurata masu sha'awar juna ne suke jayayya. A zahiri, rikice-rikice ne kawai ke haifar da danniya a cikin ma'aurata kuma idan ba su taimaka wajen magance matsaloli ba ba su ba da gudummawar komai mai kyau.

Kula da ma'aurata

Mai sarrafa ma'aurata

Ma'aurata masu kulawa suna cikin ma'aurata masu haɗari, saboda sun soke wani mutum. A hakikanin gaskiya nau'ine na zagi idan aka faɗaɗa wannan iko fiye da kima kuma ɗayan ya sallama. Yana da kyau abokiyar aikinmu ta so sanin inda za mu, amma dole ne a ba da wannan bayanin idan ana so, tun da kowannensu yana da nasa ran. Bai kamata a kula da ɗayan a kowane lokaci ba. Wadanda suke masu sarrafawa suna da rashin tsaro sosai kuma galibi suna zargin abokin tarayya akan hakan.

Ma'aurata masu dogaro

Daga cikin ma'aurata masu guba akwai mutanen da suke sun dogara sosai akan ɗayan. Ba su san yadda za su yi komai su kaɗai ba ballantana su yi la'akari da shi kuma suna buƙatar ɗayan a kowane lokaci don ya sami zamantakewar zamantakewar al'umma ko yanke shawara wani abu. Bai kamata ka dogara da wani mutum ba, ba da son rai ko na kuɗi ba, domin hakan yana saka ka a matsayin miƙa wuya da kuma na rashin ƙarfi a gaban ɗayan.

Ma'aurata masu amfani da bacin rai

Akwai ma'aurata waɗanda a koyaushe na san su yi amfani da sakonnin baki don samun abinda kake so. Babu tattaunawa da yarjejeniya, amma maimakon yin amfani da hankali. Wannan yana haifar da ɗayan don ya yarda amma ya ji magudi, wanda zai tara ɓacin rai.


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