Kodayake mutane suna tunanin cewa jin daɗin zama cikin mummunan abu abu ne mara kyau, hakika abu ne mai kyau ƙwarai da dalilai iri daban-daban. Karanta don gano menene waɗancan dalilan!
Tsaro
Ta hanyar jin daɗin zama da mutum, mutum yakan sami kwanciyar hankali game da kansa, da abokin tarayya, da kuma alaƙar su. Wataƙila baku san kanku ba, kuma kuna ganin yadda kuke babban mutum a kowace hanya. Hakanan kuna da tabbaci sosai akan abokin tarayya. Ya isa sanin cewa zai ƙaunace ku, cewa yana son ganin ainihinku, kuma zai runguma ku a duk lokacin da kuka buƙace shi.
Aƙarshe, ta hanyar jin daɗin zama tare da kai da abokin tarayya, hakan na nufin cewa zaku iya kanku cikin dangantakarku. Kuna iya samun kwarin gwiwa da babban sadaukarwa da jin dadi a cikin dangantakarku, tare da abin da yake wakilta.
Gaskiya
Kasancewa cikin nutsuwa a cikin ma'amala yana nufin ka bude wa juna sirrin zama a abokin zama. Ta hanyar kasancewa tare da junan ku, zaku karfafa dangantakar ku ta hanyar kasancewa da kanku kuma kuna da matsayin kai tsaye, mai gaskiya, mai gaskiya, da sadarwa. Ma'auratan da ke da kwanciyar hankali a cikin dangantaka suna ba da izinin duk wannan kuma suna ƙarfafa shi, suma. Za ku ga cewa ta hanyar buɗe baki, dangantakarku za ta bunƙasa kamar yadda wannan kuma zai nuna sadaukarwa, girmamawa, gaskiya, da ƙauna.
Bambanci tsakanin jin daɗi da rashin ƙoƙari
Jin dadi a cikin dangantaka ya haɗa da bayyana ko wane ne kai, abin da kake ji, da kasancewa ƙasa da buɗewa tare da abokin tarayya. Koyaya, mutane da yawa suna tunanin hakan jin daɗin zama tare da abokiyar aurenku daidai yake da lokacin da mutane suka daina ƙoƙari. Ba haka lamarin yake ba.
Ku biyun kun bambanta. Bai kamata ku daina gwadawa cikin dangantakarku ba, kuma saboda kawai ba koyaushe kuke yin ado ko ɓoye abubuwa game da kanku ba, Hakan ba yana nufin cewa ba kwa yin ƙoƙari don nuna wa abokin tarayyar ku yadda kuke ƙaunarsu.
Mafi kwanciyar hankali shine mafi kyau
Kasancewa cikin nutsuwa a cikin mu'amala yana nuna cewa bakada tsoron kasancewa wacce kake tare da abokiyar zamanka, kuma baka tsoron rungumarsa game da ko wanene. Suna nuna soyayya, amincewa, kulawa, sha'awa, shakuwa, kuma mafi mahimmanci, sadaukar da kai ga juna.
Ba za ku iya bayyana mahimmancinsa ba don ku kasance da kwanciyar hankali tare da abokin tarayya, saboda jin daɗin da yake bayarwa, tare da haɗin da za ku samu tare, wani abu ne mai ban mamaki.
Samun kwanciyar hankali a cikin dangantaka yana da kyau ne kawai ga dangantakar, domin hakan zai taimaka muku da abokin zama kusa kusa, akan matakan da yawa. Duk da haka, idan abokin zamanka baya son ko waye kai kuma baya son yadda kake yayin da kake jin dadin zama dashi…. Sannan wannan mutumin bai cancanci mutumin ban mamaki da kai ba, kuma zaka sami wanda ya fi shi kyau kuma zai ƙaunace ka kasancewar ka!
Don haka ba shi dama don samun kwanciyar hankali a cikin zamantakewar ku kuma ku sami damar raba tunaninku ga wannan mutumin da kuke ƙauna. Domin idan wani bai yarda da kai ka kasance cikin dangantaka ba, to kawai basu cancanci ka ba ...