Limerence ko yawan kamu da soyayya

ma'aurata fata

Faɗuwa cikin ƙawa shine matakin rayuwa mai ban mamaki wanda mutane da yawa ke fuskanta yayin fara wani alaƙar. A wannan lokacin, mutum yana karɓar kowane irin motsin rai a cikin ƙaƙƙarfan hanyar da ta daɗe da daidaita ta kuma karfafa irin wannan alakar ta irin wannan hanyar. Duk wannan yana taimaka wa ma'aurata su zama masu ƙarfi a gaban ƙaunataccen.

Limerence cuta ce da ke bayyana lokacin da mutum yana da matukar bukatar a ƙaunace shi kuma a rama masa.

Menene limerence?

Limerence cuta ce ta damuwa da tilastawa wanda wani ya kwatanta shi da wani wanda suke ƙauna. Irin wannan shakuwa da soyayya yana bayyana kansa ta hanyar dogaro da motsin rai da kuma wasu mugayen tunani wadanda basu da lafiya ga alakar. Abu daya ne kasancewa cikin soyayya wani kuma daban ne don nuna wasu halaye na son kai da tilas a fuskar sha'awar so da kauna.

Yadda ake gano rashin ƙarfi

Akwai alamomi da dama wadanda zasu iya yin gargadi cewa mutum na fama da rashin karfin jiki:

  • Duk abin ya shafi masoyi ne. Tunanin ya zama kamu da sha'awar ɗayan cikin dangantakar.
  • Mutumin da ke fama da irin wannan cuta yana da babban tsoron ƙi daga ƙaunataccensa. Wannan yana haifar da tsananin damuwa a rayuwar yau da kullun.
  • Ya ce tsoron cewa ba a sake biya ba, yana haifar da jerin halayen halayen kamar tambayar koyaushe game da abubuwan da aka haifar a cikin dangantakar.
  • Rashin haƙuri zai iya sa mutumin da ke fama da wannan cuta ya sami gurɓatattun tunani na gaskiya ta hanyar al'ada. Wannan yana haifar da rasa ikon motsin rai.

ma'aurata suna magana daga soyayya

  • Tunanin kowane lokaci cewa ɗayan zai iya ƙi shi, yana sa ka sami jerin mummunan tunani game da ƙaunataccenka.
  • Idan mutumin yana fama da lemun tsami, zai daidaita ƙaunataccen a kowane lokaci. Daidaitawa yana da matuƙar ƙima wanda ba za a iya ɗaukarsa a kowane lokaci cewa mutum yana da wasu lahani ko kuma zai iya yin kuskure.
  • A cikin mafi tsananin yanayi mai tsanani, mai cutar la'akari da cewa rayuwa ba ta da ma'ana idan baya tare da masoyi.
  • Yana da kyau cewa idan kun sha wahala daga rashin ƙarfi, mutum yana da tsananin matsalolin motsin rai kamar damuwa ko damuwa. -Aukaka kai da amincewa suma an lalata su tunda sun dogara da abin da ɗayan ɓangarorin ma'auratan suke tsammani.

A takaice, Limerence cuta ce mai rikitarwa wacce ba ta da alaƙa da kasancewa da soyayya da wani mutum. Dangantaka ko ma'auratan suna ɗaukar kujerar baya, tunda abin da ke da muhimmanci shine son kai don a ƙaunace su. Dangantaka ce mai guba tunda mutumin da ke da irin wannan matsalar ba zai iya rayuwa ta yau da kullun ba, yana jujjuya komai game da ƙaunataccensa. Dole ne a kafa ingantacciyar dangantaka bisa daidaito girmamawa, amincewa da soyayya. Soyayya al'amari ne guda biyu kuma baza'a iya gina shi ba sakamakon ɗabi'a da ɗabi'ar son kai.


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