Babu shakka cewa maza da mata sun bambanta ta hanyoyi da yawa, gami da duk abin da ya shafi jima'i. Sha'awa ko sha'awar jima'i ya banbanta tsakanin mace da namiji.
Dangane da ma'aurata, yana da mahimmanci a sami cikakkiyar daidaito dangane da libido, don haka dangantakar ba ta wahala ba kuma dukkan bangarorin sun gamsu sosai.
Libido ko sha'awar jima'i a cikin maza
- A lokacin da suka kai shekaru 18, yawancin samari suna yin tunani sosai game da batun jima'i. Zasu iya samun inzali 4 ko 5 a rana, ko dai ta hanyar al'aura ko ta hanyar jima'i.
- Libido ya fara canzawa a ƙarshen 20s da farkon 30s. Suna yin al'aura sosai duk da cewa har yanzu suna da sauƙin amsawa ga matsaloli daban-daban da suka shafi jima'i.
- Bayan ya kai shekara 40, mutumin ya fara fuskantar sanannun canje-canje dangane da sha'awar jima'i. Idan ya kai ga cimma burin gini, suna bukatar karin kuzari. Tunanin yanayin jima'i yana raguwa dangane da shekaru 20.
- Daga shekara 50, sha'awar jima'i yana raguwa a hankali, kai abun ciki tare da inzali a mako. Wadannan inzali suna da rauni sosai kuma inzali ba shi da karfi sosai. Yana da kyau sosai cewa tsawon shekaru, libido yana nuna fushi kuma ba daidai yake da farkon ba. Za'a iya yin ƙaura da sha'awar jima'i ta hanyar ƙauna da ƙauna a gaban abokin tarayya.
Libido ko sha'awar jima'i a cikin mata
- Ba kamar abin da ke faruwa yayin samartaka a cikin maza ba, mata ba sa nuna sha'awar jima'i da yawa idan csuna shiga cikin wasu batutuwa.
- Yayin da shekaru suka shude, sai su fara damuwa game da jima'i, isa lokacin mafi girma bayan shekaru 35. Yawan libido dinsu ya fita kuma suna tashi da sauri.
- Daga shekara 45, sha'awar jima'i fara raguwa a hankali. Babban bambanci game da maza shine cewa a cikin yanayin mata, inzali ba ya raguwa kuma suna iya jin kamar lokacin da suke samartaka.
- Da zuwan al'ada, sha'awar jima'i na iya zama iri ɗaya amma ƙarfin inzali yana raguwa ta wata hanya ta ban mamaki. Bayan sun kai shekaru 60, al'ada ce a garesu su fara damuwa game da jima'i da abokin tarayya, tunda zasu iya gamsar da kansu ba tare da wata matsala ba.
Yadda ake more jima'i da abokin zama har tsawon rayuwa
Don kauce wa rikice-rikice ko fada game da sha'awar jima'i, yana da mahimmanci ma'aurata su kasance masu aiki duk da shekarun da suka gabata. Faduwa cikin damuwa babban haɗari ne wanda zai iya girgiza dangantakarku. Baya ga wannan, ana jin daɗin jima'i sosai lokacin da ma'auratan suka sami damar yin rayuwa cikakkiyar lafiya ba tare da wuce gona da iri ba. Yana da mahimmanci a sami damar samun daidaito idan ya zo ga batun jima'i, tunda ta wannan hanyar ake kauce wa wasu rikice-rikice ko jayayya.