Hatsarin kyautata abokin tarayya

KYAUTA

Idealization yana nan a yawancin alaƙar yau. A bayyane yake cewa wannan babbar matsala ce, musamman saboda gaskiyar ta bambanta.

Dole ne ku ajiye duk wani abu da ke kewaye da manufa kuma ku rayu soyayya ta gaskiya tare da kyawawan abubuwanta da munanan abubuwanta. A cikin labarin da ke gaba muna magana game da haɗarin manufa na abokin tarayya.

Me yasa ma'auratan suka dace?

Daidaita abokin tarayya na iya zama al'ada a farkon kowace dangantaka. Da farko, a cikin soyayya, kowane bangare yana nuna mafi kyawun kansa don labarin soyayya ya dawwama. Saboda haka kyautata abokin tarayya hali ne na al'ada kuma na halitta.

Duk da haka, tare da wucewar lokaci, ba shi da kyau ga makomar dangantakar da za a tashe ma'aurata a kan babban tushe. Yana da mahimmanci a yi amfani da hankali kuma mu ga yadda ƙauna ta gaske take. Duk da haka, wannan yana da rikitarwa, musamman lokacin da motsin zuciyarmu da jin dadi ya fi tsanani da karfi fiye da hankali.

NUFI

Hatsarin kyautata abokin tarayya

Babu laifi don sha'awar ma'aurata da ci gaba da nuna duk kyawawan halayensu. Haɗarin gaske shine wuce wannan manufa da kuma sanya bandeji wanda baya barin a ga gaskiya. Sa'an nan kuma mu magana game da hatsarori da manufa abokin tarayya yana da dangantaka:

  • Ɗayan haɗarin irin wannan manufa shine samun matsala tare da girman kai. A mafi yawancin lokuta, mutumin da ya dace da abokin tarayya yana da ɗan amincewa da kansa kuma Yana da girman kai sosai.
  • Baya ga abubuwan da aka ambata na girman kai. the idealization na abokin tarayya zaton a wajen wani babban tunani dogara. Samun abokin tarayya a kan tudu yana da ma'ana tare da mahimmancin dogaro na motsin rai na yau da kullun.
  • Zama tare da cikakken mutum wanda ba shi da aibi zai yi mummunan tasiri a kan halayen wani ɓangare na ma'aurata. Akwai kasala mai mahimmanci a cikin kai tunda duk abin da ke da kyau yana ɗaukar sashin da aka tsara.
  • Ƙarya ba za ta kasance a cikin dangantakar da ake ganin lafiya ba. Haɓaka abokin zama koyaushe yana nufin rashin ganin bayan gaskiya da rayuwa cikin babbar ƙarya. Ƙaunar ƙaunatacciyar ƙauna ce ta ƙagaggen ƙauna wadda ba ta dace da ainihin duniya ba.
  • Babban matsala tare da manufa shine cewa bayan lokaci ya ɓace kuma rashin jin daɗi ya bayyana a cikin ma'aurata. Yana da wuya a lura da yadda aka rayu a cikin duniyar da ba ta da gaske nesa ba kusa ba.

A takaice dai, ba shi da kyau a samu wata alaka wacce daya daga cikin bangarorin ta tsinci kanta a saman tudu kuma tana da kwarjini. Duk wannan yana nufin nisantar duniyar gaske da nutsar da kanku a cikin duniyar tatsuniya da tunani.


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