Abu ne da ya zama ruwan dare gama gari kuma ya zama ruwan dare ganin ma'auratan da suka yanke shawarar yin dogon aure ba tare da daukar matakin yin aure ba. Shekarun baya neman aure shine mataki kafin aure kuma iya samar da igiyar aure irin ta rayuwa.
Koyaya, a yau akwai mutane da yawa waɗanda suke guji auren abokin rayuwarsu duka kuma sun zabi su kula da neman auren ne har abada kuma na dogon lokaci. Sannan zamuyi magana dakai kan fa'ida da rashin amfanin doguwar soyayya.
Menene fa'idar samun doguwar zawarci
Sannan za mu nuna muku wasu fa'idodi da doguwar neman aure ke bayarwa:
- Kashe lokaci mai yawa tare da mutum daya yana sauƙaƙa sauƙi da sauƙi don magance matsaloli daban-daban. cewa zasu iya fito da tsarin yau da kullun.
- Doguwar zawarci zai taimaka wajen kafa tushe a tsakanin ma'auratan dangane da tsaro da amincin mutane duka. Wannan yana sanya dankon mai karfi ya kasance mai karfi tare da kyakykyawan abin da yake dashi don kyakkyawar makomar ma'aurata.
- Tsawan aure a cikin lokaci zai ba wa ma'aurata damar kafa jerin maƙasudai ko manufa ɗaya da gaske suna da fa'ida ga faɗin neman aure.
- Wata fa'idar samun doguwar zawarci ita ce hakikanin cimma wata muhimmiyar walwala a matakin kowane mutum. Wannan yana da mahimmanci idan yazo da samun 'yanci da farin ciki a cikin kansa. Wannan yana da tasiri mai kyau ga ma'auratan da kuma ƙulla dangantaka tsakanin mutanen biyu.
Yiwuwar lalacewar doguwar neman aure
Ba duk abin da zai zama fa'ida bane a cikin dogon lokacin soyayyar kuma akwai wasu abubuwan rashin amfani da yakamata a nuna:
- Doguwar zawarci na iya haifar da kafa wasu ayyukan yau da kullun bisa tsarin yau da kullun. Wannan na iya haifar da jin daɗi wanda zai iya haifar da wasu rikice-rikice ko faɗa a tsakanin ma'aurata.
- Zama tare da mutum tsawon lokaci, Zai iya haifar da soyayya ta ragu a hanya mai haɗari.
- Matsi daga dangi da abokai wani rashin fa'ida ce na kasancewa cikin alaƙar da ta yi tsayi sosai. Yawancin mutane na kusa suna matsa wa ma'auratan su ɗauki matakin yin auren.
- Yana iya faruwa cewa saboda lokacin soyayya, wasu shubuhohi sun fara bayyana a ɗayan membobin ma'auratan. Wannan na iya haifar da wasu rikice-rikice da ka iya jefa rayuwar auren cikin hadari sosai.
A takaice, doguwar zawarci na iya zama mai kyau ga wasu ma'aurata yayin da a wasu kuma hakan na iya kaiwa ga karshen dangantakar kanta. A kowane hali yana da mahimmanci a tattauna da ma'auratan kuma kai wani matsayi wanda zai amfani bangarorin biyu. Hakanan an nuna cewa yin zawarci na dogon lokaci zai tabbatar da nasarar auren a nan gaba. Akasin haka, idan lokacin zawarcin ya ɗan sami sabani, da alama irin wannan faɗa zai ci gaba da faruwa yayin auren.