Har wa yau, shahararren imani har yanzu yana rinjayar cewa idan babu shigar azzakari cikin farji, babu jima'i. Yana da mahimmanci a ajiye irin waɗannan ra'ayoyin a gefe guda kuma a yi tunanin cewa akwai jima'i a lokacin da ake shafawa, al'aura ko jima'i a baki tsakanin mutanen biyu.
Dole ne ku sami nutsuwa da yawa kuma ku manta da gaskiyar cewa kawai ana yin jima'i idan namiji zai iya shiga cikin mace yayin jima'i. A cikin labarin da ke gaba muna ba ku wasu mabuɗan don tabbatar da cewa za a iya yin jima'i ko da yake babu shigar azzakari cikin farji.
Za'a iya yin jima'i idan babu shigar azzakari cikin farji
Sa'ar al'amarin shine akwai mutane da yawa da suke da hankali waɗanda suke tunanin cewa za'a iya yin jima'i kodayake shigar mutum a ciki ba ya faruwa. Wannan tunanin yafi faruwa ga mata fiye da na maza. Mutum na iya jin daɗin rayuwar jima'i mai ma'ana duk da babu kowane irin shigar azzakari cikin farji.
Rashin ilimin ilimin jima'i da aka samu yana sanya mutane da yawa, shigar azzakari cikin farji yana jin kamar wani abu ne tilas domin a dauke shi jima'i. Wannan ilimin yana ba da fifiko ga jin daɗin maza fiye da na mata, don haka ana iya ɗaukar sa macho gaba ɗaya.
Hadadden jima'i
Gaskiyar cewa jima'i ya ragu zuwa shigar azzakari cikin farji shima yana da nasaba da mafi yawan ra'ayi cewa mutane su zama maza da mata. Ka tuna cewa jima'i ya fi rikitarwa kuma ana iya samun cikakke da gamsarwa na ayyukan jima'i ba tare da shigar azzakari cikin farji ko inzali ba. Bai kamata a rage aikin jima'i zuwa gaskiyar shigar azzakari cikin farji ba.
Dole ne a nemi mabuɗin duk wannan a ra'ayin mata. Akwai karatuna da yawa da ke nuna cewa mata sun fi son ayyukan jima'i ban da azzakari cikin farji. Yana da wuya mace ta ji daɗin jima'i idan ta shiga cikin namiji ne kawai. Suna buƙatar wasu jerin ayyukan don su sami farin ciki da jin daɗi yayin aikin jima'i.
Ilimi a cikin jima'i
Ganin wannan, yana da mahimmanci don iya sake samun ilimi a fagen jima'i mata da maza. Dole ne mutane su kasance suna sane a kowane lokaci game da babban tasirin jima'i da 'yan Adam ke da shi. Jima'i ba kawai shigar azzakari cikin farji ba ne kuma akwai wasu hanyoyin da yawa da za a more a cikin gado ba tare da azzakari ba. Har sai irin wannan ilimin ya faru, mutane da yawa zasu ci gaba da tunanin cewa jima'i yana faruwa ne idan akwai shigar azzakari cikin farji. Hakanan yana da matukar mahimmanci kasancewa da kyakkyawar sadarwa tare da ma'aurata don iya magana da abubuwa ba tare da kowane irin ɓoyewa ba da kuma sanin yadda duka mutanen suke jin daɗin kwanciya.
A takaice, ya bayyana karara cewa ga jima'i, shigar mutum ciki ba lallai ba ne. Jima'i ya fi fadi kuma akwai hanyoyi da yawa don jin daɗin kwanciya tare da abokin tarayya, duk da cewa babu shigar azzakari cikin farji.