Ba kwatsam cewa zoben aure a sanya a kan wani yatsa na musamman. Kamar yadda muka sani sarai, zobe alama ce ta haɗin kai tsakanin mutane biyu, don haka keɓe muku alƙawarinku. Lokacin da ma'aurata suka kulla wannan alƙawarin rayuwa, suna yin kyauta wanda shima galibi zobe ne.
Lokacin da aka ɗauki mataki na gaba, wanda shine bikin aure, wannan zobe ya canza ga sanannun ƙawance. Har ila yau yin alamar wannan canjin a cikin dangantakar. Zoben aure yawanci zinariya ce, kodayake wasu ma'aurata kuma sun zaɓi platinum ko azurfa, kodayake zuwa ƙarami. Gano duk abin da kuke buƙatar sani game da shi!
Tarihin zoben aure
Don sanin kadan game da alamarta, yana da daraja a waiwaya baya. Tuni a zamanin Roman, akwai wasu zobba waɗanda zasu iya hatimin haruffa ko yarjejeniyoyi gaba ɗaya. Kowannensu ya sanya nasu kuma yayi amfani dashi don yin wasu mahimman kwangila. Daga nan ne tunanin hatimin wani abu mai mahimmanci kamar bikin aure tare da shi. Bugu da kari, an ce, an bai wa matar zoben a matsayin alama ce ta like duk abin da suke da shi a cikin gidan da hana su sata.
En shekarun kirista, tuni waɗansu alamu da aka zana a jikin ta sun bayyana. Alamu waɗanda ke nuna ƙauna da jituwa. Don haka, farawa daga wannan, lokacin da aka ba wa ma'aurata, za mu iya kuma cewa alama ce ta haɗuwa kuma ba shakka, soyayya.
A wane yatsan zoben bikin aure yake tafiya?
Daya daga cikin sanannun sanannun labarai ne suka zo daga China. Daga nan ne suka sanar da mu cewa kowane yatsan hannunmu yana wakiltar wasu kebantattun danginmu. Saboda haka, babban yatsu babban dangi ne kamar yadda iyayenmu suke, ɗan yatsan yatsan yayanmu ne yayin da yatsun tsakiya ke wakiltar kanmu. Mun zo yatsan zobe sai aka ce shi ne wanda yake wakiltar ma'auratan, don ƙarewa da ƙaramin yatsan da yara.
Akwai cikakkiyar aiki don fahimtar wannan dukkan aikin. Mun sanya hannaye biyu, muna goyon bayan tafin ɗaya a kan ɗayan. Muna lanƙwasa yatsun tsakiya zuwa ciki. Yanzu zamu ga yadda har yanzu sauran yatsun suke manne. Ka yi kokarin raba manyan yatsun hannunka, yatsun hannunka, da ƙananan yatsunsu. Me ka cimma? Amma idan kuna kokarin raba yatsun zobe, ba sauki bane. Kuna iya samun sa, amma a ƙa'ida suna yawan yin kawance tare.
Don haka wannan yana gaya mana cewa iyayenmu ko danginmu za su sami rayukansu kuma ba a nufin mu zauna tare da su har abada ba. Yaran ma za su yi nasu, kamar yadda 'yan'uwanmu za su yi. Amma tunda yatsan zoben ya wakilci ma'auratan, mun ga cewa ba sauki a raba su. Ateaddara ta haɗa su kuma saboda haka, zoben dole ne ya hau kan yatsan da ke musu alama. Baya ga wannan ka’idar, kiristocin sun fadi haka a cikin yatsan zobe, na hannun hagu, akwai wata jijiya wacce ke hade da zuciya.
Hannun dama ko hagu?
Yanzu da yake mun san hadisai da tatsuniyoyi game da yatsa inda zobe yake, dole ne kuma mu san a hannun da za mu sanya shi. A wannan yanayin babu dokar gama gari. A cikin kasashe kamar Amurka galibi ana ganin ta hannun hagu yayin da a yankin Turai yawanci suna ɗauke da su a hannun dama. Tabbas, dukansu sun dace a yatsan zobe saboda suna ci gaba da yin imani da wannan jijiya ta musamman da ake kira Amoris.
Ana neman ɗan tarihin, mun sami hakan Edward VI na Ingilishi ya sanya shi ado don sanya zoben bikin aure a hannun hagu. Amma wani lokaci daga baya, wannan hannun yana da alaƙa da shaidan, don haka aka canza shi zuwa hannun dama, wanda ke nuna kyakkyawa da kuma rashin nutsuwa. Kuma ina zaka kaishi?