Nasihu don jin daɗin hutu a matsayin ma'aurata

Hutun ma'aurata

Lokacin bazara yana zuwa kuma tare da shi lokacin da galibi muke zuwa hutu. Akwai mutane da yawa da suke ƙoƙarin yin hutunsu dace da na abokin ka domin ka more su tare. Koyaya, a waɗannan ranakun hutu kuma yana iya zama cewa sabbin matsaloli suna bayyana yayin ɗaukar ƙarin lokaci tare, wani abu da ya kamata mu guji.

Mun sani cewa lokacin hutu shine idan karin ma'aurata suka rabu saboda dalilai da yawa. Mafi daidaito shine ma'aurata suna ciyar da ƙarin lokaci tare kuma wannan yana sa dangantakar ta kasance ta wata fuskar. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa dole ne muyi tunanin yadda za mu fi jin daɗin hutu a matsayin ma'aurata don kauce musu daga zama bala'i.

Zabi wurin tafiya tare

Idan zamu tafi hutu a matsayin ma'aurata dole ne mu yi wani abu da muke so. A wasu lokuta ba abu ne mai sauƙi ba saboda muna iya kasancewa da ra'ayoyi dabam-dabam, wuraren da muke so da wasu da ba ma so, ko kuma hanyoyin tafiye-tafiye dabam dabam. Amma magana, zaku iya yanke hukunci mai kyau duka ku biyun, wanda dukkan ku ku more. Idan dogon hutu ne zaka iya bincika shafuka da yawa. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa abu na farko da za ku yi shi ne tattaunawa tsakanin ku biyu game da yiwuwar wuraren da za ku so ku je da kuma dalilin da kuma abin da kuke son yi a can. Don haka zaka iya samun ra'ayin inda kake son zuwa hutu.

Dole ne ku biyun ku shirya

Ji daɗin hutu a matsayin ma'aurata

Yana da mahimmanci ku duka ku nuna sha'awa yayin shirin hutun ku. Yana iya zama ɗayan ya fi ɗayan kyau amma ya dace magana tsakanin su biyu kuma nemi kowane irin bayani. Wajibi ne a shiga ciki saboda idan mutum daya ne ya yi dukkan aikin to karshensa zai zama mai gajiyarwa. Yana ɗaukar aiki mai yawa don tsara komai don ku rarraba ayyukan ta yadda kowane ɗayan zai yi wani abu kuma ta haka ne ya sami nasara ta hanyar yin aiki a matsayin ma'aurata.

Shirya wani abu mai ban sha'awa

A lokacin tafiya dole ne ku gwada sababbin abubuwa, wani abu da ke burge ku kuma za ku iya yi tare. Yana da kyau a shakata amma ku ma dole ƙirƙirar abubuwan ban sha'awa na tafiye-tafiye kuma yin wani nishaɗi ko aiki mai ban sha'awa na iya zama cikakke. Abubuwan gogewa waɗanda suke da alaƙa da lokutan ɗoki na motsin rai sune waɗanda za a iya tunawa da su, saboda haka babban ra'ayi ne mu yi wani abu da koyaushe muke tuna shi a matsayin wani abu mai kyau. Ire-iren waɗannan abubuwa suna haɓaka alaƙar kuma suna ƙara taɓawa mai ban sha'awa, wani abu da ya ɓace lokaci.

Barin dakin kadaici

Daya daga cikin manyan matsalolinda suke zuwa hutu a matsayin ma'aurata shine, duk tsawon lokacin da kuke tare kuma yana da kyau koda yaushe ku samu kanku. Ko lokacinda muke hutu yana yiwuwa a sami lokuta cikin kadaici. Misali, idan mutum yana son ganin gidan kayan gargajiya wani kuma ya fi son yawo cikin gari, zai yiwu a raba shi kuma hakan kowa yayi abinda yake so na 'yan awanni. Koyaushe babban gogewa ne don jin daɗin abubuwa cikin kaɗaici.

Guji zargi

Kyakkyawan hutu a matsayin ma'aurata

Idan wani abu yayi kuskure a cikin tafiya, guji kowane irin zargi ga wanda ya shirya shi. Dukanmu muna yin kuskure kuma wannan al'ada ce, tunda abubuwa ba koyaushe suke faruwa kamar yadda muka tsara ba. Amma muhimmin abu a cikin waɗannan lamuran shi ne cewa a matsayin ma'aurata mun san yadda za mu taimaki juna don shawo kan wannan matsalar da ta taso. Ta wannan hanyar ba kawai muna ƙarfafa ma'aurata ba, amma kuma muna koyon yin aiki tare. Wajibi ne a guji tattaunawa da zagin da ba ya zuwa ko'ina. A kowane hali, ya zama dole ku san yadda ake bayyana abubuwa tare da girmama juna, ƙoƙarin fahimtar ɗayan don haka cimma kyakkyawar sadarwa a matsayin ma'aurata.


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