Ba zai dade ba sai ya iso Ranar soyayya, fewan kwanakin da suka raba mu har zuwa 14 ga Fabrairu babu shakka lokaci ne mai kyau don fara tunanin abincin dare da wannan daren mai dadi tare da abokin tarayyarmu. Ba wannan kawai ba, masana halayyar dan Adam suna gaya mana cewa hakan na iya zama cikakken uzuri don yin tunani kan yanayin dangantakar, da farin cikinmu.
Gaskiya ne cewa ba kowa ya ba da mahimmancin wannan ranar ba, da bangaren kasuwanci A can ne kuma wani lokacin har ma muna jin "tilas ne" don yin wannan kyautar ko samun kyauta tare da abokin tarayyarmu. Amma barin taruka na kayan duniya, Ranar soyayya itace babbar kyakkyawar dama don buɗe zukatanmu da ƙarfafa haɗin kai tare da wanda muke ƙauna. Kuma abincin dare zai zama cikakken lokacin haɗin kai da ba da karatu mai sosa rai game da dangantaka.
Me yasa ranar soyayya take da mahimmanci?
Muna iya cewa kowane dama yana da kyau mu sami wata rana ta musamman tare da abokin tarayyarmu, ƙananan uzuri galibi suna haifar da kyawawan halaye. lokacin kusanci tare da mutumin da muke ƙauna. Amma bari muci gaba kadan: rana ce wacce ake daga darajar alaqaqa, kuma a zahiri, mahimmancin so da kauna. Bikin shi saboda haka yana da kyau sosai saboda girman da muke nunawa a ƙasa:
1. Ranar soyayya rana ce mai matukar dacewa don aiwatar da ita dubawa. Ya isa mu kalli kanmu, kimanta inda muke. Tambayi kanku idan da gaske kuna inda kuke so ku kasance, kuma idan abin da kuka dandana ya zuwa yanzu ya cancanci hakan. A cikin dangantaka, ɓangarorin biyu dole ne su inganta juna, wanda shine dalilin da yasa wasu lokuta rashin daidaito zai iya bayyana wanda ba mu da cikakken sani game da shi. Yaya kimar kaina, na gamsu da kaina? Ina farin ciki? Kuna buƙatar tambayar kanku waɗannan tambayoyin a farkon mutum.
2. Nuna tare da abokin tarayya: Da zaran mun yi bincike na kanmu game da halin da muka tsinci kanmu a ciki, wannan alƙawarin na ranar soyayya babbar dama ce mafi kyau don magana game da abubuwan da muka samu da kuma gabatar da manufofi na gaba. Yana da mahimmanci cewa bari muyi magana akan abinda muke ji A yadda aka saba, soyayya ƙa'idodi ce mai rikitarwa inda yawancin abubuwan jin daɗi da motsin rai ke cudanyawa. Bayyana farin cikin ku, amma har da bukatun ku ba tare da tsoron amfani da mutum na farko ba: "Ina jin menene ..." ko "Ina buƙatar menene ...". Yana da mahimmanci ku kafa sauraro mai amfani kuma mai amfani.
3. Daren wahala: Lokacin da ma'aurata suka saba da abin da suke yi na yau da kullun, suna fuskantar haɗarin cewa dangantakar za ta kasance da ƙarfi. Yana da kyau koyaushe a gabatar da ƙananan labarai da abubuwan da ku biyu kuka faɗi tare. Wani lokaci na yau da kullun daga rana zuwa rana muna zama wanda ake iya faɗi: aiki, gida, karatu, yara ... mun san yadda ɗayan zai amsa a kowane lokaci, ba da sani ba shiga cikin da'irar da ba ta da motsin rai. Me zai hana ka yin wani abu daban-daban lokaci-lokaci? Ranar masoya rana ce mai matukar nasara don yin wani abu daga cikin talaka wanda zai bamu damar kawo mana ruɗu da sabon abu.
Nasihu don cikakken daren ranar soyayya
Wataƙila za a yaudare ku da ra'ayin yin abincin dare a gidan abinci. Mu, tun Bezzia, muna ba da shawarar ku yi bikin wannan ranar soyayya mu biyu kadai a gida. Toari ga adanawa, za mu ƙyale kanmu ya kasance tare da abokin aikinmu, muna jin daɗin abincin dare a hankali, kyan gani da kulawa.
Yin girki tare koyaushe kyakkyawan ra'ayi ne, mutum na iya kula da masu farawa da kayan zaki kuma wani babban hanya, misali. Amma dole ne mu shirya wasu kwanaki kafin abin da menu zai kasance a daren. Muna ba ku wasu matakai:
1. Yi wasa tare da launuka. Fage ne mai matukar ban sha'awa. Abinci mai launin ja, ruwan hoda da baƙar fata suna ba da jita-jita abubuwan da muke so. Bishiyar blueberry ko rasberi tare da nama shine zaɓi mai dacewa wanda zaku iya kimantawa tsakanin su biyun.
2. Aphrodisiacs. Zaɓi mai ban sha'awa babu shakka zabi abincin aphrodisiac tare da fa'idodin abinci mai gina jiki waɗanda ke kula da haɓaka libido ɗinmu. Amma koyaushe ka tuna cewa kwakwalwa shine mafi kyawun motsawa. Oysters suna kara haihuwa, da kuma wasu kayan lambu: kabewa, atishoki da albasa… suna da daraja sosai wajan ilimin jima'i. A matsayin kayan zaki, duk wani 'ya'yan itace, ice cream ko kuma kayan zaki da aka hada da kirfa da ginger, su ne kawayen da suka dace don karfafa yaduwar jinin mu, da inganta sha'awar jima'i.
3. Kula da gabatarwa: Matsayi mai mahimmanci ba tare da wata shakka ba. Don yin wannan, yi ƙoƙari don ƙirƙirar yanayi mai dacewa inda kowane abu yake da mahimmanci: haske, rarrabuwar kujeru don fuskantar juna, tsara tabarau, ƙanshin ɗakin (ƙanshin vanilla wani kyakkyawan motsawa ne, don misali), kida mai ma'ana garemu duka ...
Kada ku damu da kowane bayanin da yake cikakke kuma mai kyau, bari da spontaneity Hakanan suna da kasancewarsu yayin cin abincin dare, tunda bayan komai shine mafi mahimmanci. Ranar soyayya kawai uzuri ne, kyauta ce da kuke baiwa junanku don sabunta alaƙar ku da ɗan asali da kuma ɗan tatsuniya. Jin daɗin abincin, sihirin kamanninku, damuwa, da sahihancin tattaunawar ku a hankali zai haifar da wannan lalata ta tsakanin ku. Don mai da shi abin da ba za a iya mantawa da shi ba, kawai yana buƙatar taimakon smallan detailsan bayanai kaɗan don jin daɗi, cin abincin dare mai kyau, ,an dariya, almara don tunawa, shirye-shiryen da za a kafa nan gaba da sauƙi na kasancewa kusa da wanda muke ƙauna. Wancan abokin tare da wanda muke ji dashi cikakken farin ciki.