Each stage of the children's lives is different, special and above all, intense. The maturing process of children is different for each of them, however, complications and stressful moments come for all. Especially as adolescence approaches, with so many hormonal disorders and changes in the personality of the children, which make parents do not know very well how to get it right.
Making decisions when it comes to adolescents is complex, because in a sense they seem adults, but in reality they are still children. Children who are developing their personality, their own tastes and hobbies that today are conditioned by all the information they acquire from the Internet. And that's where kids discover worlds as fun and controversial as the world of makeup.
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My daughter wants to put on makeup but I think it's early
Many girls and boys are passionate about makeup, since they are children and have fun imitating what the grown-ups do or play dress-up. Putting on makeup is a game for them and while it is, it is not a problem for parents. However, What happens when a teenage girl says she wants to put on makeup? What has been an adult makeup, to go out, go to school or spend time with friends.
At that moment, the most normal thing is that you have the instinct to deny yourself, to think that she is too young and express it like that in front of her. Something that can undoubtedly happen to anyone, although it is still a mistake. Because when a child expresses a wish to you, lets you see what his personality is like, opens up before you, is doing an exercise in trust that can be irretrievably broken.
Therefore, when receiving news like that, the first and most important thing is to maintain control and think very well how to act. Avoid saying things that may offend the girl, do not tell her that she is a girl or that she is older, because the most likely thing is that for other things you tell her that she is no longer a girl. Listen to their wishes, ask him to tell you what kind of makeup he wantsTell him that you will think about it and discuss it at another time.
Teach her to put on makeup
If your daughter wants to do makeup, she will, with or without your favor. The difference is that if it does it with your consent, you will do it properly, with the right products and gradually learning what makeup is. If you do it on the sly, you will have to use cheap, borrowed or poor quality products. She won't know how to apply it, or how to make makeup help her look better, because that's what cosmetics is all about.
That moment has to come, because if your daughter expresses her desire to put on makeup, sooner or later it will come. So, help him discover the funny world of makeupBecause is exciting and can learn many things of the. Take your daughter shopping for her first products, because it is essential that she uses age-appropriate cosmetics.
Choose some basic things that your daughter will be happy with, without the need to use all kinds of products. You can buy her a moisturizer with some color, a very fluid cream with a sun protection factor that will also protect her skin. A lipstick in pink tones, with which you see some color on your lips but in a subtle way. also can use some earth tone or peach shade for the eyes, a product that will also help you color your cheeks.
With these basics your daughter can start her makeup bag. And you, you will have the peace of mind of knowing that use their products, which are of quality, appropriate for their age and with colors that won't make her look older or in disguise. In this way, she will be happy, she will feel heard, understood, and when she needs to talk to you, precious trust will have been created. Something that is undoubtedly worth it, although for this it is necessary to let your daughter put on makeup.