Love is not something that one chooses, it is something that arises and manifests itself in multiple ways or forms. The ideal is that said love is reciprocated in the same way and thus create a bond with that person.
The problem arises when the loved one has a type of personality that does not benefit the relationship at all and makes it toxic. This is what happens when the partner is narcissistic and self-centered. In the following article we tell you what to do when the partner is narcissistic and self-centered.
What is a narcissistic person characterized by?
At first glance it is very difficult and complicated to be able to detect a narcissistic person. It is necessary to live with her on a regular basis and observe her conduct and behavior first-hand to identify said personality trait. A narcissistic person thinks that he is above others, including his partner. He only cares about one thing and that is her well-being and he will put anything before him in order to achieve it. The person who is narcissistic will need his partner to constantly adore him and to highlight all his virtues. The ego is so big that it thinks it is the real leader in the couple and does not take into account at all the opinion of the other person.
What to do if the partner is narcissistic
It should be noted that it is not easy or simple to end a relationship with someone narcissistic. The power of the narcissistic person is so great that it exerts great control over the subjugated person, making it difficult to end the relationship. There is a situation of emotional dependency that makes the bond continue and not break.
The narcissistic person is a born manipulator, exercising said manipulation towards the partner. This manipulation is so great that there is quite a large and important emotional and psychological damage to the couple. The advisable thing in such a case is to go to the closest circle and seek the support of both friends and family. The help of an expert professional on the subject is also key and essential when it comes to breaking such a toxic and unhealthy relationship. The important thing above all, is to recover lost self-esteem and confidence and to be able to break the bond created.
Young couple having issues in relationship, blaming each other for problems
Do not fall into the blackmailing behavior of the narcissistic partner
Emotional blackmail is the main weapon that the narcissistic person has. so that the partner does not abandon him. Despite totally toxic conduct and behavior, the narcissistic person thinks that he is above his partner and will do everything possible to keep her by her side. It is important to believe in oneself and have friends and family when it comes to breaking up definitively with the relationship.
It is good to avoid any type of conflict or fight that can cause certain doubts about the decision made. A relationship must be based on love and the balance of both parties, If this does not happen, it is likely that the relationship is toxic and it has to be ended.
In short, it is not advisable or recommended to maintain a relationship with a person who is narcissistic. Said person has such a big ego that he will always believe that he must be above his partner. For a narcissistic person, fairness does not exist and they will consider their partner as someone inferior to whom they can emotionally manipulate whenever they want.